Thursday, January 10, 2008

December 4th

[Jay-Z's Mom:]
Sean Carter was born December 4th
Weighing in at 10 pounds 8 ounces
He was the last of my 4 children
The only one who didn't give me any pain when i gave birth to him
And that's how i knew that he was a special child



They say they never miss you till you dead or you gone, so on that note I'm going after this blog. So this night has been a rejuvenation for me, and I hate to say it, but it was done by me again. In the sense that I called those I needed and they were also there when I needed them. I love my friends when they can come through for me. It was a blast. Where do I begin?


Angela, Angela all over again. No, not my Angela, but the new one. Conway. She intrigued me in that I talked to her less when i first ran into her at a birthday party for a mutual friend. I talked more with her hispanic friend than her, and yet we hit it off online. Then soon, it was talk, talk talk, then when I met her, she stopped it all. She became someone else, and it took forever to wear her away and get to her to be something more, but I always felt like I just needed to get to know her. Well, tonight, I can say she helped me.

I've been so out of it. So distraught and disaligned. I figured it out on the phone with her. It was September, when September stopped being my friend. I didn't freak like I did with Angela, but something else happend. I was able to rationalize it. Dheeraj tried to see if I was ok, and I felt alright. I said, "Is she dead? Then I don't care." in the sense that I don't mind if she turns me away, because I know who I am, and I know what I did was right. That I am none of those who abused her, that denied her, and tried to destroy her life. I was above it and a good person. But, i just didn't see it. Somehow, i filtered it out and forgot to learn about it. This lead me down a path of ignorance and distruction. The more I told myself this, I got cocky, and above myself. I didn't know how to counteract this new rationalization, and I let my loneliness just keep building.

Selena couldn't help, and she just got worse as time went on. I had fun for awhile with my friends, and it was grand, but then they left for their motherlands, and I stayed here. Matters because worse when my jaw was rendered incompacitated with having my wisdom teeth removed, preventing me from really talking at all. Soon, I fell out of the loop from all my social networks, and soon I was worse than before.

I started to grab for things, anything, any sensation that would kill my impending doom. It finally manifested it'self in going to the devil and forgetting who i was. I stopped trying to be good and I made a destermination to look out for number one. It was horrible. I started to just feel alone and desolate. Like I was isolated even more. Life stopped being exciting, with any meaning, it just became..... a narrow path. I forgot about being in a "Post - Veronica" world. Here is where Angela comes in.


I don't know what happend. I got up, went to work at the music store, then off to the after school program. The kids are always good, and love them all too much. I got home, ready to clean my crap, but I needed to eat, so I made some food as Rob came home early. I wanted to watch Serpico with him, but I guess My Name is Earl and 30 Rock were new, so we watched that. Afterwards, I just picked up my phone and went in my room. I just, I just determined that moment there that I needed to relax. I grabbed my brand new Miles Davis album, and sat in my room. I called Veronica Sotelo first. OH YEAH! I was going to call her after getting a message from her. But then, I just needed to relax, and I guess get out more than I even though. I called Angela, and she picked up. I said hello, and asked what she was doing, and I guess I just went into it. How life just sucked, how I'm aimless and I need to be good again. I forgot what i was doing and just let the gloom take over my heart.


We talked it all out, and when it was all said and done, it lasted over 2 hours. I can't believe it, it's never been done, not with her, especially not with her. But you know, it was so much help. I feel like a million dollars. Veronica called right after too and we yuked it up for like a half hour. It was grand. Now I have a joy again. I don't know what it truly was, maybe just a friend to hear me out after so long, but she did it, whatever it was, I feel rejuvenated again. I talked to her online soon after...



Alex says:
IT IS A BEACH!!!
Angela says:
i KNOW!
Alex says:
HA HA HA!
Thanks so much Angela, I feel so revitalized, so much alive again!
Angela says:
i see that!
Alex says:
I mean, I'm not out of the shit yet, but I'm digging my way out of it
Angela says:
sure
soooooo
still alive and kickin?
can i say thanks for taking me to see the Wizard of Oz at the movie theatre that one time
that was so cool
I have never seen it on a big screeen before
except remember that one guy that came in and was talkign
tlaking*
talking*
Alex says:
Hey, no problem, I was happy you came
Angela says:
haha
Alex says:
Yeah, that guy was about to stab us
Angela says:
hahha
Alex says:
I was going to go with my family to see "It's a Wonderful Life" there too, but then the show was lost or canceled on their site and we couldn't get ahold of them
Angela says:
ohhhhh
Alex says:
They just aquired another theater, but I think the distribution deal prevented them from showing other films than new ones at the moment
Ugh, I was trying forever to see I Am Legend there
Angela says:
oh
i cant believe i talked to you on the phone for like 2 hours
Alex says:
Yeah, we haven't done that in a long time
Angela says:
or ever
lol
Alex says:
HA HA
Pretty good feat, eh?
Angela says:
yeah
Alex says:
I know, it was so good and so long, I forgot all about cleaning up, all about watching my movie. At the end, I wrote myself a little inspiration note, and then collapsed on the floor with a joyous weight and stared at the ceiling
Angela says:
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAAHAHHAHAHHAHHA
Alex says:
Mmmmm yes, it was a grand old time
And yet again, I keep listening to this one song that sounds so inspirational again
over and over
Angela says:
that happens to me alllll the time
what song?
Alex says:
ha ha, I bet you dance over and over too
Angela says:
definately


Jay-Z's December 4th. It was an obsession at work, and I didn't know why, but tonight, it turned into my victory song, and thank God, I'm free at last, free atleast, THANK GOD ALMIGHTY, I'M FREE ATLAST!!

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